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This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, and aunt - Madam Abosede Folashade Akinyemi SRN, SCM, HV, FPC, MOW, JP.  A native of Ikorodu,  born on the 25th day of August 1935 at Imo Maternity Center, Abeokuta, Ogun State - Nigeria to the family of late Pa.  Ladipo Shittu Oshinowo and Madam Janet Adeoti Oshinowo. 

She was engaged to late Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi on August 25th, 1962 in Athens, Greece and was married on July 20, 1963 at the Welham Green Methodist Church, Fulham, London. The marriage was blessed with 4 children: Temitayo Oshadiya, Olusina Akinyemi, Mobolaji Akinyemi, Olufunmilola Onabiyi -  10 grandchildren: Bomi, Korede, Muyiwa, Tolu & Bolu Oshadiya; Seni & Fehintoluwa Akinyemi; Oba Akinyemi; Seyifunmi & Kikiola Onabiyi.

Background:

She attended Wesley School, Oko - Nigeria [1942-1944]  where she was popularly know as 'Bose Omo Iya Alaro',  Agbeni Methodist School, Ibadan [1945-1950] and later St. Theresa's College, Oke-Ado, Ibadan [1951-1956]. She proceeded to Nottingham, Midlands in the United Kingdom on October 10, 1957 and started her nursing  training at the general hospital, where she later obtained the state registered nurse SRN certificate. She did her part 1 midwifery course at South Mead Hospital, Bristol and part 2 at Ipswich County Borough District, South East, England and later obtained her certified midwifery certificate in 1962. She did her health visitors course at Bristol University, England [1962-1963] and finished in record time. She returned to Nigeria on board M.V. Aurel on the 16th of August, 1963.

Experience: 

  • Between 1956-1957, she worked briefly in the department of Statistics, Ministry of Education under Dr. Ademola Igun.
  • 1962, worked  as a staff midwife at the County Borough Maternity Home, England.
  • Worked as health sister at Onireke Health Center, Ibadan as a supervisor at Oranyan Agbongbon Maternity Centers.
  • She was transferred to Araromi Obu in Ondo State as the sister-in-charge of the isolated health center.
  • Matron at Oba Ademola Maternity Hospital [formerly Macota Hospital], Ijemo, Abeokuta - Ogun State. 
  • Joined the University of Ibadan department of pediatrics working with Professor Hendricks, Dr. Sennette and Dr. Antia. She was involved in research work, children special clinics and patients management.
  • Founded Bibidero Maternity and Child Welfare Home in 1971 in Lagos, Nigeria.
  • She retired from active service to serve God and humanity.
  • She went on holy pilgrimage to jerusalem in 1981.

Mama was a devout Christian, a great philantropist who is very diligent, warm and selfless. She was a patient listener and an advocate of love, peace and unity. She was very humble, kind, gentle and soft spoken.  Her hobbies includes reading, baking, entertaining, traveling and photography. She passed away on peacefully on July 14, 2008 at the age of 72. We will remember her forever. Grandma as we fondly call her lived a worthy life.

One Year Remembrance

7/14/2009: Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Lagos, Nigeria

 

Funeral Arrangements 

In USA:

Celebration of Life Service:
At Jesus House Baltimore, Maryland. 
Address: 7710 Windsor Mill Road Baltimore, Maryland, 21244 USA
Date:       Friday August 8, 2008
Time:      
7:00 pm

In Nigeria:

Church Wake: Monday, August 11 - Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at the 9 Awori Crescent, Ilupeju residence, Lagos, Nigeria. 

Final Wake: Thursday, August 14, 2008 at the Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Lagos, Nigeria. Time: 5:00 pm 
 

Lying-In-State: Friday, August 15, 2008 at the 9 Awori Crescent, Lagos residence. Time: 8:00 am

Funeral: Services: Friday, August 15, 2008 at the Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Mushin, Lagos - Nigeria.  Time: 11:00 am 

Interment follows immediately at Atan Cemetry, Yaba, Lagos, Nigeria.

Entertainment of Guests: Friday, August 15, 2008 at Ilupeju Secondary School, Obokun Street, Ilupeju, Lagos after interment.

Memorial Service: Sunday, August 17, 2008 at the Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Mushin, Lagos - Nigeria.

 

Family Tree

Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Nee Oshinowo)

Born: August 25, 1935
Died: July 14, 2008
Husband: Late Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi


Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Mrs.) Children

i. Temitayo Oshadiya (Mrs.)
ii. Olusina Akinyemi (M)
iii. Bolaji Akinyemi (M)
iv. Funmilola Onabiyi (Mrs.) (USA)

Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi’s grand children
1. Temitayo Oshadiya’s children (Mrs.) (Husband - Ben)
a. Adebomi Oshadiya - (M)
b. Korede Oshadiya’s  - (M)
c. Olumuyiwa Oshadiya - (M)
d. Bolutife Oshadiya (Twins) - (M)
e. Tolulase Oshadiya (Twins) - (M)


2. Olusina Akinyemi’s children (Wife - Oju) 
a. Oluseni Akinyemi - (M)
b. Fehintolu Akinyemi - (F)


3. Bolaji Akinyemi’s children (Wife – Iyabode) 
a. Obatotosinloluwa Akinyemi - (M) 


4. Olufunmilola Abiodun-Onabiyi's children:   
a. Seyifunmi Onabiyi - (M)  (USA)
b. Kikiola Onabiyi - (F) (USA)


Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi’s Siblings

Dr. Tokunbo Oshinowo (M) (CAN) 
Engr. Gbolahan Oshinowo (M) 
Mrs. Titilayo Sobanjo
Artist Kolade Oshinowo (M) 
Mrs.  Fadeke Oladeinde (USA) 
Dr.  Oluwasegun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (M) (USA) 
Brig. Gen. Oluseun Oshinowo (M)

 

                            ORIKI

ABOSEDE FOLASADE AKINYEMI
Omo Ladipo Shittu Oshinowo (LSO) - Omo Itun Pate ni Ikorodu.
Omo Janet Adeoti Oshinowo – Omo Jolaoso - Omo Itun Alara ni Makun, Sagamu.

Omo Olowo Inu Aja
Omo Eluku Menden Menden
Omo Osinwin Rewa Loke Ota-Ona
Omo Aleremo Seji
Omo Ake Nigbo, Keru Ba Ara Ona
Omo Magbo Igbore
Omo Imale Afeleja
Omo Likopa Nmeru Ogudu
Omo Liwe Likoro
Omo Ikorodu Oriwu
Omo Asale Jeje Bi Eniti Ori Obirin Ri
Omo Awaiye Ma Ba Tise Wa
Omo Ikorodu Oga, Ilu Ti Osi Alaaru

Sun Re E O!

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Family Tree
Tributes and Condolences
THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH   / Rev. Dr. Soji Falae (I'm Ben Oshadiya's boy )
On behalf of the entire Falae Family (home and abroad) I rejoice with all mama's family members, friends and well wishers for the good legacy mama left behind for all to emulate, most especially for her dedication in serving the Lord and he...  Continue >>
Tribute to my Mentor-Dr Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi   / Dr. Oluwasegun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (Brother)
Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi, Ph.D (Baba Tayo)
A Tribute to my Mentor - August 16, 2008

Yesterday I saw two people in the grave when we buried my sister. I saw my sister resting and lying next to her husband, Baba Tayo, my mentor, ...  Continue >>
Abiyamo toto   / Atinuke Onabiyi (Lola Onabiyi sister-in-law )
I will forever remember the 1 week i spent with mommy 3years ago, i would wake up to a sumptous breakfast already prepared & after which she'll ask me for my itinery for the day & she'll send me off with prayers, calling me ''olohun-iyo''. ...  Continue >>
Letter To My Sister, Abosede Folashade Akinyemi   / Dr. Segun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (Brother)
Letter To My Sister, Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Nee Oshinowo) Say Sista, Balanced woman of God A woman of character A woman of means A woman of prayer A prayer warrior A woman of dignity A woman of sincerity A woman of rarity A woman of valor A...  Continue >>
Sleep on Mummy Ilupeju   / Lola Agboola (Niece)
This morning I woke up to the reality that I was not going to be able to call you any more to wish you a Happy Birthday.  I can only thank God that you have gone to a place were celebrations never cease.   Your sister is yet to c...  Continue >>
TRIBUTE TO OUR WONDERFUL MOTHER.  / Rasheed Alabi (Church member )    Read >>
A Tribute To My Darling Sweet Mother  / Lola Onabiyi (Daughter)    Read >>
mama, i havemiss you and i will miss you so much  / Oshinowo Shola (niece)    Read >>
Tribute to Abosede Folashade Akinyemi  / Oba Otudeko (Family)    Read >>
Big Mummy  / Ms Kehinde Oladeinde (Niece)    Read >>
Big Grama  / RUFAI TEMITOPE     Read >>
Iyawo mi, iyawo wa, iya Tayo  / Abiola Babatope (Inlaw)    Read >>
Condolence / Mrs Modupe Aderibigbe (Neighbour)    Read >>
Rest In Peace Mama  / Femi Ogunnaike (Little Sister to Sis Lola )    Read >>
What an irreparable loss......!!!!  / Dr Frederick Oladeinde (Fadeke's husband )    Read >>
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Her legacy
My Mother  

Her ACHIEVEMENTS:

Dr and Mrs. Akinyemi joined the Methodist Church Palm Avenue, Lagos- Nigeria in 1971 during the era of Reverend Taiwo. Mama Akinyemi became a class leader in 1979 and was a chapel steward till 2001. She became a fully accredited Lay Preacher in 1982 and also a fully accredited  lay preacher instructor.

Awards:

Mama was honored with the following awards;

  • Methodist Church Nigeria conference award of MOW ( Member of the Orderof Wesley) April 11, 1999
  • Methodist Church Nigeria, Diocese of Lagos mainland Award. 
  • Methodist Church Nigeria, Diocese of Lagos mainland Award, Susan Wesley's Award
  • YWCA Award
  • She was a counsellor at Methodist Church Nigeria (MCN), Palm Avenue Cathedral Mushin Lagos.
  • A member of the Trust Committee
  • She is a foundation member of the "An hour with Christ" Program
  • She was treasurer Methodist Evangelical Movement (MEM)
  • Treasurer  Palm Avenue Women's Fellowship till 2004
  • Treaurer Diocesan Widows' Group
  • President Christian Ladies League
  • Life President Progressive Band of Hope, Palm Avenue
  • Vice President Diocesan Women's Fellowship
  • Member, Diocesan Standing Committee,
  • Member, Methodist Conference 1990-2001
  • Conference Lay representative to 1990 Ghana Methodist Conference
  • Served on the MCN Conference committee for the celebration of 150th Anniversary of Methodism in Nigeria - 1992
  • Member, Steering committee for the proposed  Palm Avenue Diocese
  • Member, Praying Band MCN Palm Avenue
  • Chief Patroness Association of Methodist Boys and Girl's Brigade
  • Patroness and District Mother; Girls'Brigade Mushin District
  • Matron, Christian Youth League Palm Avenue
  • Matron, Young Women Christian Association (YWCA) Palm Avenue
  • Matron, Christian Ladies Friendly, Palm Avenue
  • Matron, Women Auxilliary Society, Palm Avenue
  • Matron, Ifelodun Society, Palm Avenue
  • Matron, THE CHOIR, Palm Avenue
  • Adviser Emmanuel Band, Palm Avenue
  • Adviser Helpers Union, Palm Avenue
  • Matron, Ladies Improvement Association, MCN Opebi
  • Matron,Christian Youth Association, MCN Bariga
  • Matron, Emilere Society, MCN Ijeshatedo
  • Matron YWCA, MCN Idimu
  • Matron, Ladies League MCN Idimu
  • Matron, Ifelodun Society, MCN Oke-Afa
  • Matron Bible Society of Nigeria, Mushin Chapter
  • Member, Paul's Senior Citizen Center, Doxology House, Ilasa
  • Member, Ilupeju PrayerCell
  • Member, Ikeja Prayer Breakfast
  • Member, Ilupeju Women Association
  • Member OASIS Group, Jesus House Baltimore, USA.

Mama was a devout practicing christian, a diligent worker, warm and selfless person. She was a patient listener and an advocate of Love, Peace and Unity. She was kind, gentle and soft-spoken. she went on Holy pilgrimage to Jerusalemin 1981. Her hobbies werereading, baking, sewing, travelling and photography.

 

 

By Olufunmilola Abiodun-Onabiyi:

Who fed me from her gentle breast,
And hushed me in her arms to rest,
And on my cheek sweet kisses prest?
My Mother.

When pain and sickness made me cry,
Who gazed upon my heavy eye,
And wept, for fear that I should die?
My Mother.

Who dressed my doll in clothes so gay,
And fondly taught me how to play,
And minded all I had to say?
My Mother.

Who ran to help me when I fell,
And would some pretty story tell,
Or kiss the place to make it well?
My Mother.

And can I ever cease to be
Affectionate and kind to thee,
Who was so very kind to me?
My Mother.             

- Anne Taylor



 

SUSAN. Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi. SRN,SCM,HV,FPC,MOW,JP.

 


 
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