This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved mother, grandmother, great grandmother, sister, and aunt - Madam Abosede Folashade Akinyemi SRN, SCM, HV, FPC, MOW, JP. A native of Ikorodu, born on the 25th day of August 1935 at Imo Maternity Center, Abeokuta, Ogun State - Nigeria to the family of late Pa. Ladipo Shittu Oshinowo and Madam Janet Adeoti Oshinowo.
She was engaged to late Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi on August 25th, 1962 in Athens, Greece and was married on July 20, 1963 at the Welham Green Methodist Church, Fulham, London. The marriage was blessed with 4 children: Temitayo Oshadiya, Olusina Akinyemi, Mobolaji Akinyemi, Olufunmilola Onabiyi - 10 grandchildren: Bomi, Korede, Muyiwa, Tolu & Bolu Oshadiya; Seni & Fehintoluwa Akinyemi; Oba Akinyemi; Seyifunmi & Kikiola Onabiyi.
Background:
She attended Wesley School, Oko - Nigeria [1942-1944] where she was popularly know as 'Bose Omo Iya Alaro', Agbeni Methodist School, Ibadan [1945-1950] and later St. Theresa's College, Oke-Ado, Ibadan [1951-1956]. She proceeded to Nottingham, Midlands in the United Kingdom on October 10, 1957 and started her nursing training at the general hospital, where she later obtained the state registered nurse SRN certificate. She did her part 1 midwifery course at South Mead Hospital, Bristol and part 2 at Ipswich County Borough District, South East, England and later obtained her certified midwifery certificate in 1962. She did her health visitors course at Bristol University, England [1962-1963] and finished in record time. She returned to Nigeria on board M.V. Aurel on the 16th of August, 1963.
Experience:
Between 1956-1957, she worked briefly in the department of Statistics, Ministry of Education under Dr. Ademola Igun.
1962, worked as a staff midwife at the County Borough Maternity Home, England.
Worked as health sister at Onireke Health Center, Ibadan as a supervisor at Oranyan Agbongbon Maternity Centers.
She was transferred to Araromi Obu in Ondo State as the sister-in-charge of the isolated health center.
Matron at Oba Ademola Maternity Hospital [formerly Macota Hospital], Ijemo, Abeokuta - Ogun State.
Joined the University of Ibadan department of pediatrics working with Professor Hendricks, Dr. Sennette and Dr. Antia. She was involved in research work, children special clinics and patients management.
Founded Bibidero Maternity and Child Welfare Home in 1971 in Lagos, Nigeria.
She retired from active service to serve God and humanity.
She went on holy pilgrimage to jerusalem in 1981.
Mama was a devout Christian, a great philantropist who is very diligent, warm and selfless. She was a patient listener and an advocate of love, peace and unity. She was very humble, kind, gentle and soft spoken. Her hobbies includes reading, baking, entertaining, traveling and photography. She passed away on peacefully on July 14, 2008 at the age of 72. We will remember her forever. Grandma as we fondly call her lived a worthy life.
Celebration of Life Service: At Jesus House Baltimore, Maryland. Address: 7710 Windsor Mill Road Baltimore, Maryland, 21244 USA Date: Friday August 8, 2008 Time: 7:00 pm
In Nigeria:
Church Wake: Monday, August 11 - Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at the 9 Awori Crescent, Ilupeju residence, Lagos, Nigeria.
Final Wake: Thursday, August 14, 2008 at the Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Lagos, Nigeria. Time: 5:00 pm
Lying-In-State: Friday, August 15, 2008 at the 9 Awori Crescent, Lagos residence. Time: 8:00 am
Funeral: Services: Friday, August 15, 2008 at the Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Mushin, Lagos - Nigeria. Time: 11:00 am
Interment follows immediately at Atan Cemetry, Yaba, Lagos, Nigeria.
Entertainment of Guests: Friday, August 15, 2008 at Ilupeju Secondary School, Obokun Street, Ilupeju, Lagos after interment.
Memorial Service: Sunday, August 17, 2008 at the Palm Avenue Methodist Church, Mushin, Lagos - Nigeria.
Family Tree
Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Nee Oshinowo)
Born: August 25, 1935 Died: July 14, 2008 Husband: Late Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi
Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Mrs.) Children
i. Temitayo Oshadiya (Mrs.) ii. Olusina Akinyemi (M) iii. Bolaji Akinyemi (M) iv. Funmilola Onabiyi (Mrs.) (USA)
Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi’s grand children 1. Temitayo Oshadiya’s children (Mrs.) (Husband - Ben) a. Adebomi Oshadiya - (M) b. Korede Oshadiya’s - (M) c. Olumuyiwa Oshadiya - (M) d. Bolutife Oshadiya (Twins) - (M) e. Tolulase Oshadiya (Twins) - (M)
2. Olusina Akinyemi’s children (Wife - Oju) a. Oluseni Akinyemi - (M) b. Fehintolu Akinyemi - (F)
3. Bolaji Akinyemi’s children (Wife – Iyabode) a. Obatotosinloluwa Akinyemi - (M)
4. Olufunmilola Abiodun-Onabiyi's children: a. Seyifunmi Onabiyi - (M) (USA) b. Kikiola Onabiyi - (F) (USA)
Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi’s Siblings
Dr. Tokunbo Oshinowo (M) (CAN) Engr. Gbolahan Oshinowo (M) Mrs. Titilayo Sobanjo Artist Kolade Oshinowo (M) Mrs. Fadeke Oladeinde (USA) Dr. Oluwasegun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (M) (USA) Brig. Gen. Oluseun Oshinowo (M)
ORIKI
ABOSEDE FOLASADE AKINYEMI Omo Ladipo Shittu Oshinowo (LSO) - Omo Itun Pate ni Ikorodu. Omo Janet Adeoti Oshinowo – Omo Jolaoso - Omo Itun Alara ni Makun, Sagamu.
Omo Olowo Inu Aja Omo Eluku Menden Menden Omo Osinwin Rewa Loke Ota-Ona Omo Aleremo Seji Omo Ake Nigbo, Keru Ba Ara Ona Omo Magbo Igbore Omo Imale Afeleja Omo Likopa Nmeru Ogudu Omo Liwe Likoro Omo Ikorodu Oriwu Omo Asale Jeje Bi Eniti Ori Obirin Ri Omo Awaiye Ma Ba Tise Wa Omo Ikorodu Oga, Ilu Ti Osi Alaaru
THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH / Rev. Dr. Soji Falae (I'm Ben Oshadiya's boy )
On behalf of the entire Falae Family (home and abroad) I rejoice with all mama's family members, friends and well wishers for the good legacy mama left behind for all to emulate, most especially for her dedication in serving the Lord and he...
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Tribute to my Mentor-Dr Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi / Dr. Oluwasegun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (Brother)
Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi, Ph.D (Baba Tayo) A Tribute to my Mentor - August 16, 2008
Yesterday I saw two people in the grave when we buried my sister. I saw my sister resting and lying next to her husband, Baba Tayo, my mentor, ...
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Abiyamo toto / Atinuke Onabiyi (Lola Onabiyi sister-in-law )
I will forever remember the 1 week i spent with mommy 3years ago, i would wake up to a sumptous breakfast already prepared & after which she'll ask me for my itinery for the day & she'll send me off with prayers, calling me ''olohun-iyo''.
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Letter To My Sister, Abosede Folashade Akinyemi / Dr. Segun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (Brother)
Letter To My Sister, Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Nee Oshinowo) Say Sista, Balanced woman of God A woman of character A woman of means A woman of prayer A prayer warrior A woman of dignity A woman of sincerity A woman of rarity A woman of valor A...
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Sleep on Mummy Ilupeju / Lola Agboola (Niece)
This morning I woke up to the reality that I was not going to be able to call you any more to wish you a Happy Birthday. I can only thank God that you have gone to a place were celebrations never cease.
Your sister is yet to c...
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Dr and Mrs. Akinyemi joined the Methodist Church Palm Avenue, Lagos- Nigeria in 1971 during the era of Reverend Taiwo. Mama Akinyemi became a class leader in 1979 and was a chapel steward till 2001. She became a fully accredited Lay Preacher in 1982 and also a fully accredited lay preacher instructor.
Awards:
Mama was honored with the following awards;
Methodist Church Nigeria conference award of MOW ( Member of the Orderof Wesley) April 11, 1999
Methodist Church Nigeria, Diocese of Lagos mainland Award.
Methodist Church Nigeria, Diocese of Lagos mainland Award, Susan Wesley's Award
YWCA Award
She was a counsellor at Methodist Church Nigeria (MCN), Palm Avenue Cathedral Mushin Lagos.
A member of the Trust Committee
She is a foundation member of the "An hour with Christ" Program
She was treasurer Methodist Evangelical Movement (MEM)
Treasurer Palm Avenue Women's Fellowship till 2004
Treaurer Diocesan Widows' Group
President Christian Ladies League
Life President Progressive Band of Hope, Palm Avenue
Vice President Diocesan Women's Fellowship
Member, Diocesan Standing Committee,
Member, Methodist Conference 1990-2001
Conference Lay representative to 1990 Ghana Methodist Conference
Served on the MCN Conference committee for the celebration of 150th Anniversary of Methodism in Nigeria - 1992
Member, Steering committee for the proposed Palm Avenue Diocese
Member, Praying Band MCN Palm Avenue
Chief Patroness Association of Methodist Boys and Girl's Brigade
Patroness and District Mother; Girls'Brigade Mushin District
Matron, Christian Youth League Palm Avenue
Matron, Young Women Christian Association (YWCA) Palm Avenue
Matron, Christian Ladies Friendly, Palm Avenue
Matron, Women Auxilliary Society, Palm Avenue
Matron, Ifelodun Society, Palm Avenue
Matron, THE CHOIR, Palm Avenue
Adviser Emmanuel Band, Palm Avenue
Adviser Helpers Union, Palm Avenue
Matron, Ladies Improvement Association, MCN Opebi
Matron,Christian Youth Association, MCN Bariga
Matron, Emilere Society, MCN Ijeshatedo
Matron YWCA, MCN Idimu
Matron, Ladies League MCN Idimu
Matron, Ifelodun Society, MCN Oke-Afa
Matron Bible Society of Nigeria, Mushin Chapter
Member, Paul's Senior Citizen Center, Doxology House, Ilasa
Member, Ilupeju PrayerCell
Member, Ikeja Prayer Breakfast
Member, Ilupeju Women Association
Member OASIS Group, Jesus House Baltimore, USA.
Mama was a devout practicing christian, a diligent worker, warm and selfless person. She was a patient listener and an advocate of Love, Peace and Unity. She was kind, gentle and soft-spoken. she went on Holy pilgrimage to Jerusalemin 1981. Her hobbies werereading, baking, sewing, travelling and photography.
By Olufunmilola Abiodun-Onabiyi:
Who fed me from her gentle breast, And hushed me in her arms to rest, And on my cheek sweet kisses prest? My Mother.
When pain and sickness made me cry, Who gazed upon my heavy eye, And wept, for fear that I should die? My Mother.
Who dressed my doll in clothes so gay, And fondly taught me how to play, And minded all I had to say? My Mother.
Who ran to help me when I fell, And would some pretty story tell, Or kiss the place to make it well? My Mother.
And can I ever cease to be Affectionate and kind to thee, Who was so very kind to me? My Mother.