THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH  / Rev. Dr. Soji Falae (I'm Ben Oshadiya's boy )

On behalf of the entire Falae Family (home and abroad) I rejoice with all mama's family members, friends and well wishers for the good legacy mama left behind for all to emulate, most especially for her dedication in serving the Lord and helping humanity.

She blazed the trail and set records for us to glorify the Lord all the time. She was fruitful and resourceful. She supported lives and God supported her and her family. She was an achiever and God granted her the grace to multiply the fruits to bless others within her reach. She was said to be very kind and caring, and God blessed the fruits of her womb and will continue to bless them till Christ Jesus' coming.

My prayer for her children, grand-children and great grand-children, in-laws, friends, all lovers and family members is that may the Lord God continue to comfort, protect and richly bless you all in Jesus Christ's name I pray. AMEN!

- Rev. Dr. Soji Falae

 

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Tribute to my Mentor-Dr Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi  / Dr. Oluwasegun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (Brother)
Dr. Franklin Olufemi Akinyemi, Ph.D (Baba Tayo)
A Tribute to my Mentor - August 16, 2008

Yesterday I saw two people in the grave when we buried my sister. I saw my sister resting and lying next to her husband, Baba Tayo, my mentor, my father, my friend, and my confidant. I saw two people that were so caring and loving.

“Segun, Segun bawo ni,” that was how he always greeted me anytime I saw him. He was a man of truth and never beat around the bush on anything. The truth shall always set you free. He was well loved by many of us and he helped a lot us. There were those who pretended to love him that deserted the family after he passed on to the Lord. There were even those who envied and despised him, but he helped all of them anyways.

I was barely 10 years old when he and my sister Abosede took over the roles of fatherhood and motherhood in my life. . She became my mother and he became my mentor and a father figure. Since then they molded and shaped my life into what I am today. I am very fond of their children, they are like my children too. I was living in their house when Sina was born, I dropped him on the floor a few times; I think that’s why he is successful today (laugh).

I remember him giving me 2 and 6 (the old two schillings and 6 pence) for my entrance exam form to Molusi College, though I ended up going to Methodist High School. He paid for everything else.

After high school he asked me “Do you want to be a Surveyor or a Town Planner?” Then I asked which one has the most mathematics and he said Surveying. That was the beginning of my career in Surveying.

I worked with him professionally too. He was the Chief Town Planning for Lagos State and I was an Assistant Technical Officer. When the Lagos State government was taking land from people without compensation, he was helping people to save as much of their land as possible without asking for anything. He was a man of the people that helped so many people.

That man will never take bribe. In Ibadan, we used to wake up to “gifts” (bribes) by the front door, he would ask us to return the “gifts” back to the source. He would still help them anyway.

I always go to him for advice. I always poured my heart to him and he never let me down. I was never in want or lack any value, he was always there. He would listen carefully, like my sister, and then help out, like he helped several others.

The last time I saw him was when I came home in 1982. We took a drive to so many places and we talked. The last stop was to Alasia to see Baba Alasia, his father, and Iya Alakara, his mother; also saw Iya Eleko. Those three people also played important roles in my adolescence.

When Lola was born, I was with him in his hotel room in London when he got the news. We celebrated together, just the two of us; he was a happy man that day.

HE WAS THE BEST!

Your loving brother,
Dr. Babatunde Oluwasegun “O’Sheg” Oshinowo
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Abiyamo toto  / Atinuke Onabiyi (Lola Onabiyi sister-in-law )

I will forever remember the 1 week i spent with mommy 3years ago, i would wake up to a sumptous breakfast already prepared & after which she'll ask me for my itinery for the day & she'll send me off with prayers, calling me ''olohun-iyo''.

On returning in the evening mommy will be outside enjoying the fresh air & after changing into casuals, i'd join her and she'll ask the help to bring my dinner. During dinner she'd ask how my day went & i'd complain endlessly to which she'd encourage me over & over again. Then it'll be story-time, how she met Daddy Akinyemi, their private joke of ''Femi, mi o fe e'' & how she never regretted marrying him afterall. She'll always end the story by asking me to bring my guy over & settle down quickly. I would laugh & laugh & enjoy her company because she'll talk to me like we're age-mates or at most like an elder sister.

I regret the fact that I missed her last days considering the fact that I also live in Lagos & could have shared her last moments wt her if I wasn't so concerned about running after money & forgetting the most important things in life.

Mummy, we'll all miss u, especially Lola but i know that to live in the heart of those u love is not to die, u live on in the lives of ur children & grandchildren.

ADIEU MUMMY AKINYEMI!!!

Ur Olohuniyo

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Letter To My Sister, Abosede Folashade Akinyemi  / Dr. Segun "O'Sheg" Oshinowo (Brother)
Letter To My Sister, Mrs. Abosede Folashade Akinyemi (Nee Oshinowo)

Say Sista,

Balanced woman of God
A woman of character
A woman of means
A woman of prayer
A prayer warrior
A woman of dignity
A woman of sincerity
A woman of rarity
A woman of valor
A woman of value with strength and character
A woman of faith
A woman of hope
A woman of love

Your last words to me were, “I love you too, omo O’Sheg,” after I told you that I love you. I have always loved you and will forever love you.

I was barely 10 years old when you took over the motherhood role in my life. Since then you molded and shaped my life into what I am today. You became my mother and your husband, Dr. Olufemi Akinyemi, became my mentor and a father figure. I am very fond of your children, they are like my children too. I was living in your house when Sina was born, I dropped him on the floor a few times; I think that’s why he is successful today (laugh).

I always came to you for advice. I always poured my heart to you and you never let me down. I was never in want or lack any value, you were always there. What am I going to do now? Who am I going to go to now? Who is going to take care of me now the way you do? Who am I going to call and talk to now? Yes I know your answer will be “pray with your wife and talk to God and He will take care of you.”

You were Opomulero, the pillar that held the family united. You were the glue that bonded everything together. You were like the rock of Gibraltar. Say Sista, you Rock.

I will always cherish your visits to me and my family in England and then the United States. You took my wife, Iwalola, as your sister and a friend since 1978. You and her share the same birthdates, August 25, a very special day in our family. You loved our children – Adeoti, Segun Jr. and Timilehin – as your own children. You always refer to Adeoti as “Adeoti omo oba”, Segun Jr. as “omo O.J.” and Timilehin as “Elegant T.” They are all very fond of you, their Auntie Bose. As our children grew up, you always asked for their measurements to make them Nigerian clothes. You always showered them with love and gifts all the time

Say Sista, you are a woman of noble character described in Proverbs 31:10-31:
– A woman of great character, you are worth more than rubies or gold.
– She gets up while it is still dark and she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls.
– She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.
– She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy.
– She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come;
– She speaks with wisdom and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
– She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.
– Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praised her.
– Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.
– Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
– Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.

Say Sista, you were always the great optimist. You always said, “Everything is possible with God and praying ceaselessly.” When I was down, you always picked me up. When I was sad you always cheered me up. I could always count on you. When I was stranded financially with my studies at Oxford University, you mobilized funding and bailed me out. You were a prayer warrior. You along with my wife and others have prayed me out of difficult situations. You guided me spiritually when I was on the wrong path. You were never partial, you always told me like it was. You sometimes showed me tough love; you always told me when I was doing things wrong, even in my marriage. You were always down to earth and always telling the truth.

Life is all about relationships. You were all about loving one another, even those that pretend to love us or those that don’t love us at all. You lived your life according to 1 Corinthians 13:1-8:

– If I speak in tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal.
– If I have a gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing.
– If I give all I have to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
– Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
– It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
– Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
– It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
– Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

The last time I saw you in July 2007, we talked for hours, into the wee hours of the morning. When I was leaving you, you gave me a big hug and told me you loved me and that I would see you soon. Someday I will see you in heaven.

I love you very much, my Say Sista, Abosede Folashade Akinyemi, omo Oshinowo. May your Soul Rest-In-Peace. Sun Re e O!

YOU WERE THE BEST!

Your loving brother,
Dr. Babatunde Oluwasegun “O’Sheg” Oshinowo
(Iwalola, Adeoti, Segun Jr. (Baba Jr.), & Timilehin)
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Sleep on Mummy Ilupeju  / Lola Agboola (Niece)

This morning I woke up to the reality that I was not going to be able to call you any more to wish you a Happy Birthday.  I can only thank God that you have gone to a place were celebrations never cease.  

Your sister is yet to come to terms with your death but like you always requested that we take good care of her, I promise to do just that. We will also continue to pray for God to give her the strength to continue from where you stopped.

I miss your motherly advise, prayers and pet name. Who can forget the hugs and kisses you freely give?

Mummy, we will always miss you especially your 'gele ayo' and your dance steps at every graduation, wedding, baby christening, birthday, house warming, car dedication and special event you prayed for while with us.

Sweet sleep. You will forever remain in our hearts.

 

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TRIBUTE TO OUR WONDERFUL MOTHER.  / Rasheed Alabi (Church member )

Mama, you were a good mother and a true Nigerian. We love you  but Jesus love you most. Rest in perfect peace.

From Palm Avenue Cathedral Office.

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A Tribute To My Darling Sweet Mother  / Lola Onabiyi (Daughter)
Mummy, Mummy!!! Mummy of America!!!, I miss you so much already. It’s so hard to believe that you are gone.

After I was told, I waited for several days for someone to tell me “April Fool” or at least wake me up from my dream. But instead you showed up in my dream and spent such quality time with me, answering all my questions and advising me about the issues of life and telling me exactly what you wanted for your funeral- A CELERATION OF YOUR 73RD BIRTHDAY.


Can u imagine? I’m writing a tribute to you when you’re actually supposed to be here with me and my family. We were looking forward so much to seeing you. We had your room prepared and was getting a banner saying “Welcome back Grandma”. I wanted you to see Kikiola and tell me she looked like Daddy. It breaks my heart to know I can’t just pick up the phone and dial 8923903 and expect to hear your voice at the other end saying “Lola mi o”.

I miss the sound of your voice, I miss your laughs, I miss your prayers, I miss your words of wisdom and encouragement when ever I called with my numerous questions. You have been to me an epitome of wisdom, a strong shield and a pillar to run to. To me you were both Mum and Dad, believing in me when no one would, telling me times without number that I can achieve whatever it is I want, as long as I put my heart to it. You thought me to Love God, and serve him with all my heart because He is the only one I can run to, He is my shield, my help my fortress and my God. You told me to press on in times of adversity, to hold on when all seems lost and to believe and see the best in everyone.

I remember when Daddy died; I was just 9 years old and didn’t quite understand what was going on. You pulled me aside and explained it all to me. You promised in not so many words that nothing was going to change and you would do all you could to make sure I had all I needed. Thank you mummy, for keeping your promise and for being there for me all the way. Every time I called on you, you responded. Whenever I looked around for you, you were there. Even when distance and time differences became an issue, you never let go. You would stay up till midnight and after to talk to me when I got home from work, asking how my day went and advising me on how to make it better the days ahead. Thank you for showing me so much love and for telling me “I love you” at every opportunity you had.

You’ve thought me to love unconditionally and to be an inspiration to all those around me. I pray that when I die, I’ll be remembered like you for helping people without expecting anything in return. For taking people in, even when their own parents wouldn’t. For being a confidant and a patient listener. I pray that I can achieve more than all you were able to achieve, in answer to you prayers, because I know you always prayed for us that all the things you were not able to do, God will make it possible for all your children and grandchildren to do them and even more. Amen.

I thank God for your life and even more for the last two years. You were so sick and you thought it was over, but God had other plans. He wanted you to see your prayers over me being answered in your life time. I remember the day I called you and told you I was pregnant with Seyifunmi, you were so happy and you asked God to spare your life and give you good health to see him. “He did!” not only did you see him; you loved him and cared for him more than I could imagine. I remember the day I called you that Seyifunmi was in the hospital and you told me to put the phone on speaker you wanted to talk to him. He was just about 3 weeks old and you prayed for him and told him you were coming to see him. I remember the nights I’d call that Seyifunmi would not sleep and he was being so cranky. You’ll tell me to put the phone on speaker and sing to him until he fell asleep.

I thank God that not only did you sing to Seyifunmi you also sang to Kikiolaoluwa, several times I called at night due to our sleepless nights. If I had known that you wouldn’t make it down this time, I would have listened to Abiodun and recorded your songs. I was singing to Seyifunmi on Sunday “ 9 more days and Grandma will be here” and all of a sudden I was told on Monday that you had passed. I am still in shock because not only did I loose my mum, I lost my dad all over again. You were both parents to me and just like that I became an orphan, quite unexpectedly.

I spoke with you on Saturday and we were planning your trip and discussing your itinerary. You told me and Abiodun to pray for good health and I can remember telling you to just get yourself here and everything will be taken care of. I keep asking myself why you didn’t make it down. You would have got the best care in the world and probably……who knows, I might still be enjoying your company now. But you know, God knows best. He took you away from all the pain and from all the doctors’ poking eyes and numerous medications you had come to dislike. He loves you more than I do. That’s for sure.

Mummy I love you more than words can express. To me you are irreplaceable. I loved you then, I love you now and I’ll love you all the days of my life. I’ll teach my kids to love you because you loved them even before they were born.

Though my heart is heavy and my eyes are blood shot from tears, there is a confidence that I have. I know you’ve only just gone ahead of us because you’ve missed your Femi for 23 years, but surely we shall meet one day in heaven to part no more. Till then my love, my darling, my mother, sweet sleep at the bosom of our God where there is no pain, no sickness, no worries and no hurt, but where everlasting joy is in the presence of God.

WE LOVE YOU MUMMY.

Your daughter,
Olufunmilola Onabiyi
For; The Abiodun Onabiyi Family
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mama, i havemiss you and i will miss you so much  / Oshinowo Shola (niece)

uptil this moment, i c an't believe you have left us, you were like a mother to me,i don't think my mother can do half of what you have done for me,you stood by me with your encouragement, advise,you are always monitoring my movement making sure i do the right thing at the right time.you will always tell me do this thing like this so that at the end of everything people will not laugh at us(myself and her) i remember the last time be spoke face- to face, the day i was leaving for school, you called me very early in the morning and told me "lets talk as mother and daughter".if not for you i don't know how life would have been like,you leaving it will really be difficult . you mean the world to me, as long as i live i will forever remember you for good. you are one in a million. i miss you, and i know i will definately miss you the more. you are the best mum so far. rest in perfect peace ma.

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Tribute to Abosede Folashade Akinyemi  / Oba Otudeko (Family)

The Passage of a lovely soul.  Pleasant and maternal to the end.  May God accept her gentle soul to Paradise and bless her heritage.

Oba Otudeko & Family

 

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Big Mummy  / Ms Kehinde Oladeinde (Niece)

It still like a dream that you are gone,you were always like a mother hen watching over us. You were like a grandmother i never had. Always willing to give advise and those bible studies and prayer nights will never be forgotten. Through you i met most of my cousins, uncles and aunties. I will forever thank you for your love, affection, caring heart and kindness. Well you maybe gone but i know you will live forever in our hearts. R.I.P

 

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Big Grama  / RUFAI TEMITOPE
Big Grama as Oreoluwa use to call u.your death broke my heart bcos i saw u less than 12hrs before ur death,but O YE OLORUN.I wll miss ur motherly advise & may ur soul rest in peace at the feet of our LORD AMEN Close

Iyawo mi, iyawo wa, iya Tayo  / Abiola Babatope (Inlaw)

On the 29th of June at Palm Avenue Cathedral, when you told me about your health concerns, I thought it was an over active imagination in your mind. You hinted you were opting for a  new Husband who will take you away to a place far away and beyond. I was not aware that Christ, the bride-groom was ready to take you from us. Now that you are with the lord, we all appreciate what you were.

You have fullfilled the mission God sent you for in this world. You gave us beautiful children, you pampeered your siblings, you accomodated us, your in-laws. You gave yourself to work in the lord's vineyard. You generously gave your substance for his service.

"From your life, we all learnt what relationships are meant to be"

I was very surprised when you opted not to follow your husband to Australia, simply to stay behind and sustain the family, not many women would willingly forgo the pleasures of matrimony at such a young age. In his absence then and for twenty four years after Baba Tayo died you 'remained a fathful servant, never wanting at his post'. From you i have learnt invaluable lessons of life,i saw a picture of what selfless love is all about.

Now that 'the labourers task is done and the voyager lands upon the further shore, rest in the bossom of the lord.,

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Condolence / Mrs Modupe Aderibigbe (Neighbour)

It is with a great sense of loss that we heard of the passing away of Mrs Abosede Folashade Akinyemi.

We are greatful to God for having had a relationship with her and our prayers are that Almighty God will comfort the family at this time and in the coming days.

God Bless

Mrs M Aderibigbe and family

10 obokun Street, Ilupeju.

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Rest In Peace Mama  / Femi Ogunnaike (Little Sister to Sis Lola )

Mummy, the one time that I had the priviledge to meet you, you struck me as such a warm and loving individual...truly caring for everyone who crossed your path. I know you will be sorely missed and pray that the Holy Spirit will comfort all who loved you and whom you've left behind. Rest in Peace in the bosom of the Most High.

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What an irreparable loss......!!!!  / Dr Frederick Oladeinde (Fadeke's husband )

The irreparable loss caused by her death to her beloved siblings and to the children especially, 'LOLA ONABIYI, is deeply felt.

I also share the grief with my wife, the deceased's junior sister, and other members of Jolaoso and Oshinowo decendants , all of whom miss her. May the God of consolation heal your brokenness and fill you with peace.

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IT IS WELL  / OLUWASEYI MOMOH (FRIEND OF THE FAMILY )
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adieu mama  / Adenike ADESANYA (IN-LAW)

Iya rere,we shall miss you.a methodist who applied wisdom into everything.you achieved a lot.and you are someone to be emulated,the whole family would miss you.SLEEP IN THE BOSSOM OF THE LORD.

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it can't be true  / Ayotunde Adesanya (nephew)
its hard to believe that mama is gone.a true mother of peace,a mother to the whole family,a mother with a big heart,the "opomulero" is gone..rest in peace mama Close

Tribute to Sister Bose  / Dr. Abiodun Solola (Cousin)
Sista Bose! She was kind to all, considerate of others and, always thoughtful of everyone. Her well fulfilled life was dedicated to God and to her fellow beings. Moreover, and to quote her, "she has fulfilled the scriptures and seen her grand children". She is now in the right hand of God. Sista Bose, my sister then, my sister now, my sister forever. Our sister. May God bless her restful soul. K'asunre omo Adeoti, k'asunre omo Ladipo, k'asunre egbon wa. Close

you are always evergreen in my heart  / Adeyemi Oshinowo (nephew)

i can't believe i am writing this to mama.i can still remember all the mother-child talk, i can still remember the last bible fellowship together,i can still remember the last time you called my name and baptized evrybody around with holy water.i just wanted to say thank you for everything, for believing in me.i could have done it in a better way but it is only God that can reward you.how i wish i was there 1 second earlier maybe i could have turn things around. the position you were was a peaceful position

i just wanted to say thank you and i will miss you more than anything.rest in peace mama

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